Welcoming the New Year


A Gentle Beginning with Spirit Bear Coaching

The days between Christmas and the New Year carry a different kind of quiet.

The celebrations have softened. The year hasn’t quite turned yet. And in this in-between space, there is an invitation — not to rush forward, but to pause and listen.

At Spirit Bear Coaching, the New Year isn’t about sudden change or bold declarations. It’s about orientation. About noticing where you are now, what the past year has shaped in you, and what kind of energy feels right to carry forward.

Like the Spirit Bear moving slowly through a winter landscape, this is a time for steadiness, awareness, and gentle beginnings.


Honouring What Has Been

Before looking ahead, it can be meaningful to acknowledge what the past year brought.

There may have been moments of clarity, growth, or relief — and moments of uncertainty, loss, or challenge. Some things may have unfolded as you hoped. Others may have changed you in ways you didn’t expect.

All of it belongs.

Honouring the year that has passed doesn’t mean holding on. It means allowing what you’ve lived through to settle, and recognising the wisdom that’s now part of you.


A Different Way to Enter the New Year

The New Year doesn’t require pressure, reinvention, or perfection.

Instead of asking “What should I achieve?”, you might gently explore:

  • What do I want to feel more of this year?
  • What pace feels supportive for me now?
  • What am I ready to release, without force?

Intentions rooted in awareness tend to guide us more faithfully than goals built on urgency.


Carrying the Spirit Bear Forward

The Spirit Bear reminds us that strength can be quiet, guidance can be subtle, and progress doesn’t always announce itself.

As this new year begins, you are invited to trust your inner knowing, to move at a pace that honours your nervous system, and to choose alignment over urgency.

Growth often unfolds slowly — steadily — and exactly as it needs to.


A Gentle New Year Intention

Before moving on from this moment, you might like to take a few quiet minutes for a simple intention-setting practice.

Find a comfortable place to sit. Take a slow breath in through your nose, and a longer breath out through your mouth.

Then, without overthinking, reflect on these three prompts:

  • What am I ready to leave behind from the past year?
  • What quality do I want to invite into the year ahead? (for example: calm, trust, clarity, courage)
  • What small act of self-support would make the biggest difference for me right now?

You don’t need perfect answers. A word, a feeling, or a short sentence is enough.

Let your intention be something you return to gently — not something you have to chase or prove.


Moving Forward with Support

If, as you step into the new year, you feel a desire for deeper clarity, grounding, or support as you navigate what’s next, coaching can offer a steady space to explore that — at your own pace, and in your own way.

Spirit Bear Coaching exists for moments like these: when you’re ready to pause, listen inward, and move forward with greater self-trust and alignment. There is no pressure to have everything figured out — only an invitation to meet yourself honestly and with compassion.

Whenever it feels right, that space is here for you.


A New Year’s Wish

May this new year meet you with steadiness rather than urgency.

May clarity arrive in its own time.

May you feel supported — within yourself and in the world around you.

Wherever you are beginning from is enough.

Wishing you a grounded, meaningful, and gently expansive New Year.

— Spirit Bear Coaching

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Happy Easter

Best wishes this year when we are beginning to recognise that we are integrated beings at One with the Source.

Walk in Peace;

Walk in Beauty

until we meet again…

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BIO: Johnathan Brooks MA, PG Dip, MAC is an experienced Executive and Personal Coach with 1,800+ hrs in the field, who has trained in a wide range of personal development methods including CBT Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (postgrad), EFT Emotional Freedom Technique, Master NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming,  has a Postgraduate Diploma Degree in ‘Coaching and NLP’, which he passed with a ‘Commendation’, a Master of Arts in ‘Applied Coaching’ and certified Career Coach. He is based in Tunbridge Wells, Kent.

Bio Trivia: Johnathan is an enrolled member of the Northern Cheyenne tribe and whose godfather was Yul Brynner who won an Oscar for the ‘King and I’ film (1957).

He is a full member of the Association for Coaching (MAC), full Master member of the European and Mentoring Council (UK) and a professional member of the Association of NLP.

Click here for Johnathan’s LinkedIn

Support This Work

If this reflection has offered insight or comfort, and you’d like to help sustain this work and help make coaching accessible to others, you’re welcome to contribute here.

Support Spirit Bear ☕ →

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

The very best wishes for an ‘uplifting’ and wonderful Christmas and New Year through all the changes we are being offered at this time.

The trick to remember that whenever there is upheaval that is going on in our lives, is not to focus on the drama of the situation, easier said than done when partner is having an affair, economic recession, redundancy, artic winds of -50c, burst water mains, but ask yourselves, “What is the opportunity that is being shown to me right now?”

Unfortunately, global changes are in process and as old belief systems want to cling onto old structures, pain ensues. If we want new structures, we will need new beliefs. The first step maybe to ‘accept’ the situation as ‘is’ before moving on to the opportunities being offered to you/us right now.

The opposite of war (control) isn’t peace, but it could be ‘acceptance’ (let go), which then ascends to Peace. Teilhard de Chardin the great Jesuit geologist wrote “What converges ascends” (Brooks, 2010). Where the two opposites meet at the halfway point between them (War >Neutral< Accept), has a neutralising effect and therefore creating a new possibility to ascend to, such as Peace.

Model Adapted for Peace (Brooks, 2022)

 “This structural model used in Psychosynthesis again seems a useful framework for understanding how the releasing of blockages and redirecting the flow of energy can lead to the achievement of goals and positive outcomes.” (Brooks, 2010). Read published post-grad research paper here: The Performance Solution: A Research Journal of Coaching, Mentoring, Supervision and NLP, p63.

Walk in Peace;

Walk in Beauty

until we meet again…

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BIO: Johnathan Brooks MA, PG Dip, MAC is an experienced Executive and Personal Coach with 1,800+ hrs in the field, who has trained in a wide range of personal development methods including CBT Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (postgrad), EFT Emotional Freedom Technique, Master NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming,  has a Postgraduate Diploma Degree in ‘Coaching and NLP’, which he passed with a ‘Commendation’, a Master of Arts in ‘Applied Coaching’ and certified Career Coach. He is based in Tunbridge Wells, Kent.

Bio Trivia: Johnathan is an enrolled member of the Northern Cheyenne tribe and whose godfather was Yul Brynner who won an Oscar for the ‘King and I’ film (1957).

He is a full member of the Association for Coaching (MAC), full Master member of the European and Mentoring Council (UK) and a professional member of the Association of NLP.

Click here for Johnathan’s LinkedIn prof

New Year Resolutions – The Wake Up Call

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Was a wonderful pleasure to be a guest on Anna Cookson’s BBC Radio Kent breakfast show ‘The Wake Up Call’ this morning on the subject of how to keep motivated for our New Year Resolutions and listen out for the one question we need to ask about our goals. Click here >>> https://bbc.in/2F79KU7 and fast forward to 2hr 07mins and play from there, available for 29 days starting today…tick…tock…tick…

Happy New Year and have a great 2020!

Walk in Peace;

Walk in Beauty

until we meet again…

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